Další díl ze série článků na téma Sexuální život, které připravuji společně se svým partnerem. V těchto článcích se poprvé objeví tématika určená nejen ženám.
Sexuální vjemy
Vzrušení můžeme vnímat vícero smysly. Podnětem mohou být dotyky (hmat), jídlo (chuť), vizuální vjemy (zrak), sluchové vjemy (sluch), vůně (čich). Cílem všech podnětů ze začátku je navodit příjemnou atmosféru a uvolnění příjemnou hudbou, tlumeným romantickým světlem, aromatickými svíčkami nebo vonnými oleji. Jídlo i alkohol nás také umí uvolnit. Více ke stimulantům jsem psala v kapitole Afrodiziaka a sexuální stimulanty. Pokud jde o hmat, celé naše tělo může sloužit k navození sexuálních vjemů. Je tomu tak proto, že to jakým způsobem bude náš mozek interpretovat vjemy záleží na nás. Někdo chce slyšet hezká slovíčka ale někoho jiného vzruší hrubé a vulgární výrazy. Proto není vůbec překvapující že někoho vzrušují neobvyklé věci. Kůže lidského těla je jeden velký sexuální orgán. Některé jeho části jsou méně citlivé a jiné více. Proto, když začínáme předehru není třeba spěchat k pohlavním orgánům, ale můžeme se věnovat i jiným částem našeho těla a postupovat pomaloučku jako při pojídání dobrého pokrmu. Toto jsme už vysvětli v kapitole o tantrickém sexu - Vícenásobný orgasmus (Tantrický sex). Platí to stejné jako u orálního sexu (kapitola Orální sex - felace, cunilingus), že je lepší postupovat pomalu a hromadit sexuální energii než skočit rovnou na věc a ochudit se tak o ostatní možnosti které pomáhají zesílit celkové dojmy z milování. Proto si povězme o sexuálních zónách.Erotogenní zóny
Na zádech máme citlivou část vedoucí od krku mezi lopatky a naproti klíčových kostí. Na obrázku zezadu tahle oblast tvoří kříž.
Krk je citlivý z obou stran nejspíš proto že tam prochází důležité tepny a je tam jemná kůže.
Hlava je také plná citlivých míst. Všichni víme jak je nám příjemné, když nás muž pohladí po hlavě, po vlasech nebo když nám masíruje hlavu. Také obličej má rád něžnosti na místech jako jsou oční víčka, obočí, spánky a tváře. Zatímco muži mohou něžně líbat partnerčiny oční víčka (nejlépe pokud nejsou zrovna nalíčené :) partnerka může muže hladit svými řasami po tváři.
Na začátku můžete partnera (partnerku) masírovat nebo jemně hladit po ramenech. Je to příjemné, ale ne tak intimní. Ruce dobře reagují na jemné doteky i pevný stisk. Můžeme začít mnout a hladit konečky prstů a ruce. Pak se přesouváme k paži směrem k ramenům. Pevná masáž ramene je dobrá na uvolnění stresu a svalového napětí. Jemné doteky nebo škrábání jsou intimní a velmi příjemné.
Ústa a rty, ušní boltce, za uchem, krk a hrdlo. Jemně kousejte, líbejte a hlaďte tyto oblasti. Svým dechem hlaďte partnerku po krku a přes uši, ale vyhněte se dýchání přímo do uší. Střídavě sajte její lalůček a jemně ho kousejte. Ženy které mají dlouhé náušnice jimi mohou hladit partnera po krku. Také můžete hladit, lízat, stisknout nebo jemně lechtat krk a hrdlo. K tomu stisku krku bych ještě dodala, že ženy, které mají rády hrubé zacházení upřednostní spíš chycení za krk a přidušení nebo chycení pod krkem pomocí paže. Proto je důležité rozlišit jestli žena touží po něžnostech nebo hrubé síle. Pro mnohé ženy jsou francouzské polibky mnohem více intimnější než pohlavní styk.
Podpažní jamku můžete také líbat, hladit nebo lízat. Lechtivým se jemné doteky v těchto místech líbit nebudou.
Třete, líbejte nebo sajte prsty nebo palce u nohou (jen pokud jsou čisté a umyté :). Lechtejte chodidlo nebo silně zatlačte ze spodní strany chodidla.
Zapojujte dlaně a prsty do předehry a milování, vzájemné držení se za ruce pomáhá prohloubit intimitu zážitku. Prsty a nehty mějte čisté a ošetřené, abyste během hrátek s genitáliemi nepoškrábali partnerku.
Masírování horní a spodní části zad může být velmi příjemné. Je vhodné na to použít masážní olej aby se snížilo tření. Naneste masážní olej nejdříve na své ruce. Během masáže můžete střídat jemný a pevný dotek. Pokud nepoužíváte olej můžete také zapojit svá ústa a své rty. Pamatujte na to, že před použitím kondomu si musíte umýt ruce od oleje nebo lépe s kondomem olej vůbec nepoužívat. Kromě oleje můžete použít také peříčko pro jemné hlazení nebo kostku ledu. Střídejte studené s teplým dechem vašich úst a teplým jazykem.
Pánové můžete hladit svou partnerku po zádech během pohlavního styku, když je k vám otočená zády.
Počet erotogenních zón není pevně vymezen. Často je to o tom kdo a jak se vás dotýká, takže s jiným partnerem můžete objevit jiné erotogenní zóny.
Lou Paget - Sexuální instruktorka
10. Inner Thighs
The inside of the thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking and licking. Just like the back of the knees, inner thighs also have many nerve endings, therefore when you fondle them, you will turn her on like crazy.
Remember not to bite because the area is very sensitive and doing so would only cause her mild pain, which will, in turn, cause you plenty of pain.
9. Behind the Knees
Because of all the nerve endings behind the knees, you'd be surprised at how crazy a woman can become when you gently lick or nibble on the back of her knees.
Be careful not to overdo it — the area, after all, is very sensitive and you must be careful not to make the sensation annoying by getting too rough or tickling her too much.
8. Buttocks
Yes, it's true. Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like mild spanking and squeezing of the buttocks. But there's more...
Some women like having their butts licked, sucked and penetrated (with fingers, penis or both). For those who shudder at the thought of sticking their tongues out at Uranus , I'm sure that anal penetration, on the other hand, sounds quite inviting, huh?
7. Nape of the Neck
Just breathing on this part of her body will give her goose bumps all over. So just imagine her reaction when you use your tongue or teeth to get her aroused.
Use your hands too; lift her hair up gently as you bring your mouth closer to her neck. Then, as you sink your teeth into it, pull on her hair slightly so as to give that "I want you sooo bad" impression.
This part of a woman's body is also a good place to start giving her that sensual massage you are famous for and no woman can resist.
6. Ears
Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Although blowing in her ear is acceptable, it's not what women enjoy most. Besides the aforementioned things that they like having done to their ears, women like it when you whisper in their ears.
5. Feet
Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. Assuming that their feet have been properly cleansed, women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles. Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be pleasant for the recipient.
While some men cringe at the thought of wrapping their mouths around a body part that spends most of its day sweating in leather, many guys are actually pretty keen on the idea of giving their women a good toe lashing every now and then.
4. Wrists
This may come as a shock to most guys (women have wrists??!?), but women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their lovers. The next time you're getting into the foreplay of things with your woman, begin kissing and caressing her wrists and just check out how impressed and turned on she'll become!
3. Breasts (Nipples)
As I'm sure is no surprise to anyone, the breasts are very sexually sensitive and gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing.
Just as well, many women like it when their guys get a little rough with their little mountains , so find out how she likes it and give it to her the way she wants!
2. Vagina/Clitoris
The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, the finger or, for the multi-talented Joe, both simultaneously. Some women like to guide their lovers as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy.
For those who don't get that luxury, it's usually quite evident whether or not she's pleased with your performance. If she begins getting squirmy, make sure that it's because she's enjoying it and not because you're giving her that "annoying" feeling.
In the vagina, the G-spot may be a little difficult to locate, but some women find the search quite worthwhile. There is an area inside some women's vaginas that produces intense sexual feelings when stimulated. Once located, very gentle stimulation gives an incredibly pleasant and unusual sensation.
And the number one female erogenous zone...
1. Lips
Yes, it's true. If you know how to manipulate her lips just right through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, your tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion.
And there it is, the top 10 spots that will drive her crazy. Remember that all women are different and have their own likes and dislikes. Get to know her body and experiment. There's so much more to women than just their sexual organs!
Don't whisper things like, "Can you wash my gym shorts tonight?" Try to be somewhat erotic and give her the shivers up and down her spine instead.
What do you say about foot fetish? Beautiful Indian Foot Bands by Marisa Sung are great to wear for any barefoot activity = including sex! They really accentuate the beauty of your foot and the movements of your toes! :)
- See more at: http://www.asiancemagazine.com/2014/11/16/top-10-female-erogenous-zones#sthash.4UF4daof.dpuf
The inside of the thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking and licking. Just like the back of the knees, inner thighs also have many nerve endings, therefore when you fondle them, you will turn her on like crazy.
Remember not to bite because the area is very sensitive and doing so would only cause her mild pain, which will, in turn, cause you plenty of pain.
9. Behind the Knees
Because of all the nerve endings behind the knees, you'd be surprised at how crazy a woman can become when you gently lick or nibble on the back of her knees.
Be careful not to overdo it — the area, after all, is very sensitive and you must be careful not to make the sensation annoying by getting too rough or tickling her too much.
8. Buttocks
Yes, it's true. Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like mild spanking and squeezing of the buttocks. But there's more...
Some women like having their butts licked, sucked and penetrated (with fingers, penis or both). For those who shudder at the thought of sticking their tongues out at Uranus , I'm sure that anal penetration, on the other hand, sounds quite inviting, huh?
7. Nape of the Neck
Just breathing on this part of her body will give her goose bumps all over. So just imagine her reaction when you use your tongue or teeth to get her aroused.
Use your hands too; lift her hair up gently as you bring your mouth closer to her neck. Then, as you sink your teeth into it, pull on her hair slightly so as to give that "I want you sooo bad" impression.
This part of a woman's body is also a good place to start giving her that sensual massage you are famous for and no woman can resist.
6. Ears
Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Although blowing in her ear is acceptable, it's not what women enjoy most. Besides the aforementioned things that they like having done to their ears, women like it when you whisper in their ears.
5. Feet
Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. Assuming that their feet have been properly cleansed, women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles. Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be pleasant for the recipient.
While some men cringe at the thought of wrapping their mouths around a body part that spends most of its day sweating in leather, many guys are actually pretty keen on the idea of giving their women a good toe lashing every now and then.
4. Wrists
This may come as a shock to most guys (women have wrists??!?), but women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their lovers. The next time you're getting into the foreplay of things with your woman, begin kissing and caressing her wrists and just check out how impressed and turned on she'll become!
3. Breasts (Nipples)
As I'm sure is no surprise to anyone, the breasts are very sexually sensitive and gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing.
Just as well, many women like it when their guys get a little rough with their little mountains , so find out how she likes it and give it to her the way she wants!
2. Vagina/Clitoris
The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, the finger or, for the multi-talented Joe, both simultaneously. Some women like to guide their lovers as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy.
For those who don't get that luxury, it's usually quite evident whether or not she's pleased with your performance. If she begins getting squirmy, make sure that it's because she's enjoying it and not because you're giving her that "annoying" feeling.
In the vagina, the G-spot may be a little difficult to locate, but some women find the search quite worthwhile. There is an area inside some women's vaginas that produces intense sexual feelings when stimulated. Once located, very gentle stimulation gives an incredibly pleasant and unusual sensation.
And the number one female erogenous zone...
1. Lips
Yes, it's true. If you know how to manipulate her lips just right through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, your tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion.
And there it is, the top 10 spots that will drive her crazy. Remember that all women are different and have their own likes and dislikes. Get to know her body and experiment. There's so much more to women than just their sexual organs!
Don't whisper things like, "Can you wash my gym shorts tonight?" Try to be somewhat erotic and give her the shivers up and down her spine instead.
What do you say about foot fetish? Beautiful Indian Foot Bands by Marisa Sung are great to wear for any barefoot activity = including sex! They really accentuate the beauty of your foot and the movements of your toes! :)
- See more at: http://www.asiancemagazine.com/2014/11/16/top-10-female-erogenous-zones#sthash.4UF4daof.dpuf
Erotogenní zóny ženy
Zadní strana kolen, kotníky, lokty a zápěstíTyto čtyři místa jsou všechny umístěné v citlivých částech kloubů, v místech kde je jemná kůže, kudy prochází tepny a žíly a důležité nervy. Proto jsou tyto zóny považovány, spolu s podpažím za citlivé zóny, které můžeme stimulovat. Příznivci bondáže (příští kapitola) vědí, že jsou to ty místa, které se nikdy nesmí svazovat.
Podobně jako u stehen je to i se zadní stranou kolen. Zkuste ženu přivést k šílenství jemným lízáním těchto míst. Pokud je žena příliš lechtivá nejspíš to pro ní nebude to pravé.
Ženy mají rádi, když se muž mazlí s jejich zápěstím. Líbejte a laskejte ji na zápěstí a pak už jen sledujte jak ji to nažhaví.
Vnitřní strana stehen
Vnitřní strana stehen je vysoce citlivá na doteky, hlazení a lízání. Zkuste se s nimi mazlit a přivedete ji k šílenství. Nepoužívejte zuby a nekousejte, protože oblast je velmi citlivá.
Hýždě
Mnoho žen má rádo, když si partner hraje s hýžděmi. I tu platí, pokud je někdo lechtivý, nebude se mu líbit jemné hlazení konečky prstů a je lepší použít pevný stisk. Masáž těchto partií s dostatečným tlakem v rukách může být velice příjemná. Někomu se může líbit také plácání po zadku.
Zátylek
Dýchejte ji na zátylek a ona pocítí husí kůži. Použijte jazyk nebo zuby, aby se vzrušila ještě více.
Uši
Mnoho žen má rádo, když ji lízáte, sajete nebo jemně koušete uši. Ženy mají také rády šeptání do uší.
Chodidla
Mnoho žen má rádo doteky na chodidlech, hlazení kolem kotníků, masáže chodidel. Některé mají dokonce rády jejich lízání nebo sání prstů a palců. Za předpokladu, že si žena umyla chodidla se to ženám líbí. Přesto by si partner měl dát pozor pokud je partnerka lechtivá, aby sebou náhle necukla a nekopla ho. Jsou muži, kterým se představa cucání palců u nohou bude příčit, ale jsou i takoví kteří si na tom potrpí. Praktikanti bdsm zase mohou využít rákosku nebo bičík.
Rty
Pokud víte jak zacházet s jejími rty, od líbání, lízání, sání až po kousání
je velmi pravděpodobné že polibek povede k něčemu většímu. Hrajte si s jejím spodním a dolním rtem pomocí rtů, jazykem a zubama a přiveďte ji k hluboké vášni.
10. Inner Thighs
The inside of the thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking and licking. Just like the back of the knees, inner thighs also have many nerve endings, therefore when you fondle them, you will turn her on like crazy.
Remember not to bite because the area is very sensitive and doing so would only cause her mild pain, which will, in turn, cause you plenty of pain.
9. Behind the Knees
Because of all the nerve endings behind the knees, you'd be surprised at how crazy a woman can become when you gently lick or nibble on the back of her knees.
Be careful not to overdo it — the area, after all, is very sensitive and you must be careful not to make the sensation annoying by getting too rough or tickling her too much.
8. Buttocks
Yes, it's true. Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like mild spanking and squeezing of the buttocks. But there's more...
Some women like having their butts licked, sucked and penetrated (with fingers, penis or both). For those who shudder at the thought of sticking their tongues out at Uranus , I'm sure that anal penetration, on the other hand, sounds quite inviting, huh?
7. Nape of the Neck
Just breathing on this part of her body will give her goose bumps all over. So just imagine her reaction when you use your tongue or teeth to get her aroused.
Use your hands too; lift her hair up gently as you bring your mouth closer to her neck. Then, as you sink your teeth into it, pull on her hair slightly so as to give that "I want you sooo bad" impression.
This part of a woman's body is also a good place to start giving her that sensual massage you are famous for and no woman can resist.
6. Ears
Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Although blowing in her ear is acceptable, it's not what women enjoy most. Besides the aforementioned things that they like having done to their ears, women like it when you whisper in their ears.
5. Feet
Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. Assuming that their feet have been properly cleansed, women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles. Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be pleasant for the recipient.
While some men cringe at the thought of wrapping their mouths around a body part that spends most of its day sweating in leather, many guys are actually pretty keen on the idea of giving their women a good toe lashing every now and then.
4. Wrists
This may come as a shock to most guys (women have wrists??!?), but women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their lovers. The next time you're getting into the foreplay of things with your woman, begin kissing and caressing her wrists and just check out how impressed and turned on she'll become!
3. Breasts (Nipples)
As I'm sure is no surprise to anyone, the breasts are very sexually sensitive and gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing.
Just as well, many women like it when their guys get a little rough with their little mountains , so find out how she likes it and give it to her the way she wants!
2. Vagina/Clitoris
The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, the finger or, for the multi-talented Joe, both simultaneously. Some women like to guide their lovers as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy.
For those who don't get that luxury, it's usually quite evident whether or not she's pleased with your performance. If she begins getting squirmy, make sure that it's because she's enjoying it and not because you're giving her that "annoying" feeling.
In the vagina, the G-spot may be a little difficult to locate, but some women find the search quite worthwhile. There is an area inside some women's vaginas that produces intense sexual feelings when stimulated. Once located, very gentle stimulation gives an incredibly pleasant and unusual sensation.
And the number one female erogenous zone...
1. Lips
Yes, it's true. If you know how to manipulate her lips just right through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, your tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion.
And there it is, the top 10 spots that will drive her crazy. Remember that all women are different and have their own likes and dislikes. Get to know her body and experiment. There's so much more to women than just their sexual organs!
Don't whisper things like, "Can you wash my gym shorts tonight?" Try to be somewhat erotic and give her the shivers up and down her spine instead.
What do you say about foot fetish? Beautiful Indian Foot Bands by Marisa Sung are great to wear for any barefoot activity = including sex! They really accentuate the beauty of your foot and the movements of your toes! :)
- See more at: http://www.asiancemagazine.com/2014/11/16/top-10-female-erogenous-zones#sthash.4UF4daof.dpuf
The inside of the thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking and licking. Just like the back of the knees, inner thighs also have many nerve endings, therefore when you fondle them, you will turn her on like crazy.
Remember not to bite because the area is very sensitive and doing so would only cause her mild pain, which will, in turn, cause you plenty of pain.
9. Behind the Knees
Because of all the nerve endings behind the knees, you'd be surprised at how crazy a woman can become when you gently lick or nibble on the back of her knees.
Be careful not to overdo it — the area, after all, is very sensitive and you must be careful not to make the sensation annoying by getting too rough or tickling her too much.
8. Buttocks
Yes, it's true. Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like mild spanking and squeezing of the buttocks. But there's more...
Some women like having their butts licked, sucked and penetrated (with fingers, penis or both). For those who shudder at the thought of sticking their tongues out at Uranus , I'm sure that anal penetration, on the other hand, sounds quite inviting, huh?
7. Nape of the Neck
Just breathing on this part of her body will give her goose bumps all over. So just imagine her reaction when you use your tongue or teeth to get her aroused.
Use your hands too; lift her hair up gently as you bring your mouth closer to her neck. Then, as you sink your teeth into it, pull on her hair slightly so as to give that "I want you sooo bad" impression.
This part of a woman's body is also a good place to start giving her that sensual massage you are famous for and no woman can resist.
6. Ears
Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Although blowing in her ear is acceptable, it's not what women enjoy most. Besides the aforementioned things that they like having done to their ears, women like it when you whisper in their ears.
5. Feet
Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. Assuming that their feet have been properly cleansed, women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles. Because these zones can all be ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be pleasant for the recipient.
While some men cringe at the thought of wrapping their mouths around a body part that spends most of its day sweating in leather, many guys are actually pretty keen on the idea of giving their women a good toe lashing every now and then.
4. Wrists
This may come as a shock to most guys (women have wrists??!?), but women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their lovers. The next time you're getting into the foreplay of things with your woman, begin kissing and caressing her wrists and just check out how impressed and turned on she'll become!
3. Breasts (Nipples)
As I'm sure is no surprise to anyone, the breasts are very sexually sensitive and gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing.
Just as well, many women like it when their guys get a little rough with their little mountains , so find out how she likes it and give it to her the way she wants!
2. Vagina/Clitoris
The clitoris can be stimulated by using the tongue, the finger or, for the multi-talented Joe, both simultaneously. Some women like to guide their lovers as to the specific amount of pressure they enjoy.
For those who don't get that luxury, it's usually quite evident whether or not she's pleased with your performance. If she begins getting squirmy, make sure that it's because she's enjoying it and not because you're giving her that "annoying" feeling.
In the vagina, the G-spot may be a little difficult to locate, but some women find the search quite worthwhile. There is an area inside some women's vaginas that produces intense sexual feelings when stimulated. Once located, very gentle stimulation gives an incredibly pleasant and unusual sensation.
And the number one female erogenous zone...
1. Lips
Yes, it's true. If you know how to manipulate her lips just right through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, your tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion.
And there it is, the top 10 spots that will drive her crazy. Remember that all women are different and have their own likes and dislikes. Get to know her body and experiment. There's so much more to women than just their sexual organs!
Don't whisper things like, "Can you wash my gym shorts tonight?" Try to be somewhat erotic and give her the shivers up and down her spine instead.
What do you say about foot fetish? Beautiful Indian Foot Bands by Marisa Sung are great to wear for any barefoot activity = including sex! They really accentuate the beauty of your foot and the movements of your toes! :)
- See more at: http://www.asiancemagazine.com/2014/11/16/top-10-female-erogenous-zones#sthash.4UF4daof.dpuf
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